From Miss Shiny: I promise I'm going to fuck something up. I have the same rotten and miserable "transphobia" (read: trans aggression and hostility), fatphobia, and all the other icks inside of me as every other lump who was socialized in the last however many decades and centuries. I'm fighting them with both fists and sometimes fire. And I will still fuck up.
I vow to be accountable when I do fuck up. I vow to shut the fuck up and listen when you or someone else is telling me I fucked up. If I have something factual and relevant to contribute to understanding how I came to fuck up, I will ask permission to share it.